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Halal-oween

Posted on October 29, 2007
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Muslim Rizvi

Last year we had a discussion on Halloween in Pakistan and this year we’ll try to see the issues faced by the Pakistani community when they try to celebrate or try to shy away from Halloween while living abroad.

It has been boiling inside of me since that fateful day when I went to a mosque for an Iftari last Ramzan. I have a very good friend who is a part of the management at one of mosques and he invited me to come to the mosque for an iftari and a dars (sermon) by the resident maulvi. Coincidentally, I had to pass a few of his earlier invitations because of one commitment or another, so I decided to go this time. I sent him a confirmation email a day before that I will be there. However, I asked him that will he exclude me from Daira-e-Islam (circle of Islam) if I did not listen to Mullah and leave before he speaks. My friend, as expected from a gentleman that he is, sent me an email indicating his agreement with a smiley at the end.

Just to give you a little background. I am not an atheist. I consider myself a proud Muslim. I have indeed gone through my phases of atheism, agnosticism and all kinds of confusions when it comes to religion but I am thankful to God that I have evolved as a believer. When I look back, I realize that I never had any issues with Islam but I have always had issues with Muslims. To this day, I hate to see Islam used and abused by none other than the followers of this great religion.

Anyway, when I arrived at the mosque for the Iftari, my friend introduced me to the Maulvi. He seemed like a decent educated chap. After my meeting with him, my friend asked me again, if I wanted to stay for the sermon. It was hard to say no at that point. The sermon started off well and then at one point the maulvi revealed to the crowd in a very dramatic tone, that if all of the people in the mosque knew that their house was on fire. There was a silence in the room. The maulvi took another dramatic turn and said “ your house is on fire”! There was a murmur in the crowd. The maulvi repeated this statement three or four times and then asked the people, “do you want to know why?”. Some of the front row enthusiasts replied in a yes and the maulvi unfolded the mystery. The point was that our houses were on fire was because we live next to the biggest Satan, the United States. Damn! I mumbled under my breath.

I hate this meaningless US bashing. I am no fan of Mr. Bush and in fact I have several issues with the US policies. I think most of the times they are manipulative and sometimes just plain stupid. Having said that, I want to emphasize on the fact that I have no hard feelings against the American people. As a Pakistani Muslim, I believe we have a political conflict with the Unites States government and it does not translate into a war between Americans against the Muslims. The American people are simple and ignorant people like us. The difference is that they have been trapped inside a bubble. They have no idea about the outside world. All there is to them is the US and all they know about the outside world is via a biased media. It is not their fault that they are not aware of the reality of the Middle Eastern conflict. If you live with these people, you discover that hey are friendly, family oriented people with their own value system. Not every one is having sex with everyone else. Jerry Springer is not depicting the real American culture. Like us, these people too work hard to provide for their families and are not striving or conniving to destroy Islam or Muslims. It’s a political conflict , let’s keep it a political conflict!

The next trigger for this article was an email in one of the mail lists that I subscribe to titled “Surviving Halloween”. The title pretty much describes the essence of the e-mail. Here is a quote from the e-mail.

“How can we worship only Allah, the Creator, if we participate in activities that are based in pagan rituals, divination, and the spirit world? May Allah protect us from such misguidance”.

This email also had several quotations from Quran and forbade muslims to become a part of the pagan ritualistic tradition of Halloween like

“So many people participate in these celebrations without even understanding the history and the pagan connections, just because their friends are doing it, their parents did it (”it’s a tradition!”), and because “it’s fun!” Allah described such people in the Qur’an: “When it is said unto them, ‘Come to what Allah has revealed, come to the Messenger,’ they say, ‘Enough for us are the ways we found our fathers following.’ What! Even though their fathers were void of knowledge and guidance?” (Qur’an > 5:104)

I am not a religious scholar and so the first question I raise is what is the context of this quotation from Quran? Is it not that Arabs had traditions of burying daughters, worshipping idols, etc or it can be applied to children dressing up in cartoon characters and going to every home in the neighborhood to collect candy?

The second question I would raise is what does Quran say about people who use religion and quotations from Quran to serve their personal hidden agendas and what does it say about the people who in their sheer ignorance propagate these views by forwarding such emails. This emotional, exploitive rhetoric is shaping up the views and opinions of our new generation.

The third question is that being a Pakistani Muslim living in North America, if our children go “trick or treating” are they really defying the principles of Islam? I may not have an answer to the first two questions but I do believe that I know the answer to third question. I do believe that Islam is about sharing joy and love. As some one on the same mail list pointed out that we should be celebrating to the extent that we understand that it is sharing in other peoples ‘happiness and festivals’. However, at the same time we should be explicitly clear in our understanding (and our communication to kids) that this is not part of our religion. There should not be any harm as long as this understanding is clear. The gentleman also pointed out a risk that with the passage of time, this understanding or differentiation may not remain clear, and these festivals may be considered a part of Islam. I agree and with my decision to live in the “West”, I took the responsibility to provide and maintain that line of demarcation bteween our’s and their’s culture and religion.


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I agree that Halloween may have roots in pagan rituals but why do we care? Can’t we look at the bigger picture? Do you know where suit and tie comes from that you wear to work everyday? Tie symbolizes a cross. It is a very Christian thing but wearing a suit and tie does not make me Christian because that is not the ‘Neeyat’ (intention). Even your namaz (prayer) is not complete unless you make a ‘Neeyat’. Do you know where Mehndi (before your wedding) comes from you? Who cares? We adapted Hindu culture because we lived with them from hundreds of years. We didn’t adapt worshipping their gods but things that don’t hurt our basic religious principle are fine. Spreading joy and laughter is not unislamic!!! We live in multicultural society. Why can’t we be a part of other people’s festivities and share happiness? I loved it when my white, Canadian friends come to my house on Eid for Sheer Qurma. Why can’t we stop bashing everything American (even though Halloween is not originally American)? Why can’t we spread some joy and love in the world? Why do we have to highlight the differences and spread hatred? Why can’t the world be just one big happy place?

I watched the Halloween episode of the show “little mosque on the prairie”, and I loved the idea. a Halloween with a cultural twist? Can’t we have our children dressed up like chotay nawab with the kurta, pajama and topi? Can’t we have the bulbul and Jugnoo from Iqbal’s nazm Hamdardee. Can’t we have the Khattak dancer and girl from Thar costumes? If someone comes and tell me this is un-Islamic, the I only thing I can tell them is …Hip Hip Hurrah for Halal-oween!!!

About the Author: Muslim Rizvi is working as a Solutions Manager for an IT service company. He is based just outside of Toronto, Canada . Muslim is a writer, a poet, a painter, a playwright, an actor and a director and has been associated with theatre for over a decade. These days however, he is playing the role of a full time father and in his own words: “the artist in me died when a father in me was born”.

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  1. Rafay Kashmiri says:
    October 29th, 2007 8:12 am

    Muslim Rizvi

    Why we Pakistanis are always volunteers for every

    experiment in the world, why should we impose on

    Pakistanis some thing which does not belong to their
    culture or religion ??

    can you impose on westerns the followings:

    eating pan ?

    wearing shalwar Kurtah ?

    speaking Urdu ?

    not consuming alcohol, drugs , and junk food?

    can you impose Haya, hijab and sexual respect??

    can you impose family respect, between parents
    and children. ???

    can you impose ban on pig consumption and non
    halal meat ??

    can you impose polygamy ??

    can you impose religious practicing and your festivals ??

    can you impose your philosophy on them?

    All these are your Human rights beyond compromise, ok ?

    right ? and you will immediatly say in the most holy tone

    No, we have no right to impose on others !!! like you always
    claim !

    But why on earth, getting yourselves IMPOSED ??????

    because you are colonial? 5th class citizens, a backward

    nation, a religious nation, and a cultured nation, with

    a full fledge language invented ? and a civilization of
    5000 years etc etc

    Nations infested with inferiority complexes shall no

    longer EXIST.

    Come on, give me a break !!!

  2. Me says:
    October 29th, 2007 7:50 am

    Nice article man u rock!!!
    These extremists won’t ever understand.They are destroying image of islam just because of their ignorance.
    God Save Pakistan and Save Islam.

  3. Zobaria says:
    October 29th, 2007 7:08 am

    The reality is we no longer feel secure in ourselves. Somebody comes and shouts at us: “You are an infidel” and we begin the efforts to show how much of a muslim we are to that somebody, essentially turning that somebody into our god; the result: Confusion Big Time. People moving to extremes instead of the balance that is the essence of Islam (though I do believe that other religions promulgate that as well).

    Regarding the quotes, without giving the refernce to the context, either from the Holy Quran and Ahadith, there is an old saying, “Devil can quote the Scripture.”

    Abroad, whenever I was invited I never had any problem, I wasn’t forced to dance (the fact being that I have “two left feet”) or drink alcohol, though I did sing songs and ate chocolate cakes.
    When I invited it was inevitably dessi meal and an A.R Rehman or Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan (Mikaal Hassan as well) music in the background.

    Bottomline: I don’t think that I have sufficient knowledge to decide whether anyone is a true Muslim, and I would rather leave that to God.

  4. Amra says:
    October 29th, 2007 6:47 am

    I agree with Mr Rizvi. It’s all about ‘neyat’ and joining in other people’s festivals does not mean that you’ve betrayed your own religion. I think that by focussing and making judgement on little petty issues, people are losing sight of the bigger picture. It’s not the differences but the similarities between humans that will bring peace and understanding to the world. I’m tired of every single thing being labelled ‘un Islamic’. What a narrow world we’re expected to live in by the ‘holier than thou’ crowd.

  5. Qazi Atiq says:
    October 29th, 2007 4:37 am

    @ayesha. I wont go into the details of historical prespective of why basant is un-islamic you can research that history and find out the roots of what started basant.
    But just what became of the simple kite flying comptetition was un-islamic, people dancing all night on roofs without any consideration of who they are disturbing around them, programs on media which show girls and boys dancing almost in couples is not some thing i would like my children to define as enjoyment.
    I have seen sick people suffer on basant night due to the noise. One time there was a death (on basant day) and the house next door was celebrating basant, with full music, i am sure this is not what islam teaches us.
    Some times the festival itself is not so bad but what we make it like open drinking and dancing makes it un islamic

  6. ayesha sajid says:
    October 29th, 2007 3:31 am

    I dont want to be disagreeable but Pakistaniat I feel is all about personell beliefs and experiances and the right to share those without being judgemental or rude.
    It was an interesting read and said a whole lot about what expatriots are going through in bringing up thier children and giving them true values and a balanced relegious upbringing that does not isolate them in thier societies.
    I have seen my cousins and now thier children being brought up on the priciple of .. “OURS AND THIERS”.. and it works wonders in shaping balanced individuals. The sad thing is that back home , here , we cannot use the concept of ours and thiers because we are all “OUR” !
    (i keep getting this line from my children … how come everyone gets to do it except us ?)

    Mr. Rizvi , you talk of Haloween being called un islamic , over here in Pakistan , any festival or carnival is brandished so and we end up losing oppertunites for trade, entertainment, economic development linked with such activities.
    Basant is one such example.
    I could not for the life of me understand what was so unislamic about it ?
    Isint tolerance and peace the foremost message of Islam ?

  7. PatExpat says:
    October 29th, 2007 2:56 am

    I didn’t expect this website to publish a rant based on personal beliefs of one person where despite declaring his ignorance regarding Islam he chooses to interpret it. I am sure had he a similar level of ignorance in other matters such as computer science, biology, medicine, economics; he would have first researched the topic and then come up with an article. Not something off the top of his head.

    If you research about Eid, you will find the following anecdote

    [Quote]
    When Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) came to Madinah, the people of Madinah used to have two festivals. On of those two days they had carnivals and festivity. The Prophet asked the Ansar (the Muslims of Madinah) about it.

    They replied that before Islam they used to have carnivals on those two joyous days. The Prophet told them: “Instead of those two days, Allah has appointed two other days which are better, the days of Eid Al Fitr and Eid Al Adha.”
    [Unquote]

    which highlights that Prophet(PBUH) dissuaded from pagan rituals. Also read about the fasting of Ashura (10th Muharram). Though its a good deed yet to differential Muslims from the Jews, Muslims if intending to fast, are required to fast on 9th or 11th of Muharram in addition to 10th.

    I know these maulvis come up with lot of ludicrous stuff. But being educated, a writer, a poet, a painter, a playwright, an actor and a director; I expected you to have researched the topic before starting on it.

    Anyway, this is not a forum for such discussions. This is my only comment on this post.

  8. Atelier says:
    October 29th, 2007 2:40 am

    Ten Commandments a la Talibans, Neo Talibans, Jihadists and Neo Jihadists

    1- Thou shall not smile
    2- Thou shall make sure that no one smiles
    3- Thou shall make sure if one smiles he or she shall never smile again
    4- Thou shall not be joyous
    5- Thou shall make sure that no one is joyous
    6- Thou shall make sure that if there is a joyous soul you will make him or her repent and never ever be joyous again
    7- Thou shall not celebrate
    8- Thou shall make sure that no one celebrates
    9- Thou shall make sure that if one celebrates he or she shall never be able to celebrate again
    10- Thou will live in perpetual state of misery and will make sure that everyone ( faithful and heatehen all inclusive) subscribes to misery, pain and anger

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