Halal-oween

Posted on October 29, 2007
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Muslim Rizvi

Last year we had a discussion on Halloween in Pakistan and this year we’ll try to see the issues faced by the Pakistani community when they try to celebrate or try to shy away from Halloween while living abroad.



It has been boiling inside of me since that fateful day when I went to a mosque for an Iftari last Ramzan. I have a very good friend who is a part of the management at one of mosques and he invited me to come to the mosque for an iftari and a dars (sermon) by the resident maulvi. Coincidentally, I had to pass a few of his earlier invitations because of one commitment or another, so I decided to go this time. I sent him a confirmation email a day before that I will be there. However, I asked him that will he exclude me from Daira-e-Islam (circle of Islam) if I did not listen to Mullah and leave before he speaks. My friend, as expected from a gentleman that he is, sent me an email indicating his agreement with a smiley at the end.

Just to give you a little background. I am not an atheist. I consider myself a proud Muslim. I have indeed gone through my phases of atheism, agnosticism and all kinds of confusions when it comes to religion but I am thankful to God that I have evolved as a believer. When I look back, I realize that I never had any issues with Islam but I have always had issues with Muslims. To this day, I hate to see Islam used and abused by none other than the followers of this great religion.

Anyway, when I arrived at the mosque for the Iftari, my friend introduced me to the Maulvi. He seemed like a decent educated chap. After my meeting with him, my friend asked me again, if I wanted to stay for the sermon. It was hard to say no at that point. The sermon started off well and then at one point the maulvi revealed to the crowd in a very dramatic tone, that if all of the people in the mosque knew that their house was on fire. There was a silence in the room. The maulvi took another dramatic turn and said “ your house is on fire”! There was a murmur in the crowd. The maulvi repeated this statement three or four times and then asked the people, “do you want to know why?”. Some of the front row enthusiasts replied in a yes and the maulvi unfolded the mystery. The point was that our houses were on fire was because we live next to the biggest Satan, the United States. Damn! I mumbled under my breath.

I hate this meaningless US bashing. I am no fan of Mr. Bush and in fact I have several issues with the US policies. I think most of the times they are manipulative and sometimes just plain stupid. Having said that, I want to emphasize on the fact that I have no hard feelings against the American people. As a Pakistani Muslim, I believe we have a political conflict with the Unites States government and it does not translate into a war between Americans against the Muslims. The American people are simple and ignorant people like us. The difference is that they have been trapped inside a bubble. They have no idea about the outside world. All there is to them is the US and all they know about the outside world is via a biased media. It is not their fault that they are not aware of the reality of the Middle Eastern conflict. If you live with these people, you discover that hey are friendly, family oriented people with their own value system. Not every one is having sex with everyone else. Jerry Springer is not depicting the real American culture. Like us, these people too work hard to provide for their families and are not striving or conniving to destroy Islam or Muslims. It’s a political conflict , let’s keep it a political conflict!

The next trigger for this article was an email in one of the mail lists that I subscribe to titled “Surviving Halloween”. The title pretty much describes the essence of the e-mail. Here is a quote from the e-mail.

“How can we worship only Allah, the Creator, if we participate in activities that are based in pagan rituals, divination, and the spirit world? May Allah protect us from such misguidance”.

This email also had several quotations from Quran and forbade muslims to become a part of the pagan ritualistic tradition of Halloween like

“So many people participate in these celebrations without even understanding the history and the pagan connections, just because their friends are doing it, their parents did it (”it’s a tradition!”), and because “it’s fun!” Allah described such people in the Qur’an: “When it is said unto them, ‘Come to what Allah has revealed, come to the Messenger,’ they say, ‘Enough for us are the ways we found our fathers following.’ What! Even though their fathers were void of knowledge and guidance?” (Qur’an > 5:104)

I am not a religious scholar and so the first question I raise is what is the context of this quotation from Quran? Is it not that Arabs had traditions of burying daughters, worshipping idols, etc or it can be applied to children dressing up in cartoon characters and going to every home in the neighborhood to collect candy?

The second question I would raise is what does Quran say about people who use religion and quotations from Quran to serve their personal hidden agendas and what does it say about the people who in their sheer ignorance propagate these views by forwarding such emails. This emotional, exploitive rhetoric is shaping up the views and opinions of our new generation.

The third question is that being a Pakistani Muslim living in North America, if our children go “trick or treating” are they really defying the principles of Islam? I may not have an answer to the first two questions but I do believe that I know the answer to third question. I do believe that Islam is about sharing joy and love. As some one on the same mail list pointed out that we should be celebrating to the extent that we understand that it is sharing in other peoples ‘happiness and festivals’. However, at the same time we should be explicitly clear in our understanding (and our communication to kids) that this is not part of our religion. There should not be any harm as long as this understanding is clear. The gentleman also pointed out a risk that with the passage of time, this understanding or differentiation may not remain clear, and these festivals may be considered a part of Islam. I agree and with my decision to live in the “West”, I took the responsibility to provide and maintain that line of demarcation bteween our’s and their’s culture and religion.


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I agree that Halloween may have roots in pagan rituals but why do we care? Can’t we look at the bigger picture? Do you know where suit and tie comes from that you wear to work everyday? Tie symbolizes a cross. It is a very Christian thing but wearing a suit and tie does not make me Christian because that is not the ‘Neeyat’ (intention). Even your namaz (prayer) is not complete unless you make a ‘Neeyat’. Do you know where Mehndi (before your wedding) comes from you? Who cares? We adapted Hindu culture because we lived with them from hundreds of years. We didn’t adapt worshipping their gods but things that don’t hurt our basic religious principle are fine. Spreading joy and laughter is not unislamic!!! We live in multicultural society. Why can’t we be a part of other people’s festivities and share happiness? I loved it when my white, Canadian friends come to my house on Eid for Sheer Qurma. Why can’t we stop bashing everything American (even though Halloween is not originally American)? Why can’t we spread some joy and love in the world? Why do we have to highlight the differences and spread hatred? Why can’t the world be just one big happy place?

I watched the Halloween episode of the show “little mosque on the prairie”, and I loved the idea. a Halloween with a cultural twist? Can’t we have our children dressed up like chotay nawab with the kurta, pajama and topi? Can’t we have the bulbul and Jugnoo from Iqbal’s nazm Hamdardee. Can’t we have the Khattak dancer and girl from Thar costumes? If someone comes and tell me this is un-Islamic, the I only thing I can tell them is …Hip Hip Hurrah for Halal-oween!!!

Photo Credits: First photo is taken by the author himself. Other photos for this article have been taken from flickr.com

About the Author: Muslim Rizvi is working as a Solutions Manager for an IT service company. He is based just outside of Toronto, Canada . Muslim is a writer, a poet, a painter, a playwright, an actor and a director and has been associated with theatre for over a decade. These days however, he is playing the role of a full time father and in his own words: “the artist in me died when a father in me was born”.

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  1. Ghalib says:
    October 31st, 2007 10:50 am

    Defaming islam and proving your points using defense mechanism for halloween or halal-oween is absurd. The thing is more people are striving to make their ends meet,cant provide quality education for their kids than to add to their misery a thing called halloween that has no cultural or historical significance for us. Be a Mohammad or Ahmed or Muslim or Qazi by name doesnt make a difference. What makes a difference is implementation of real islam. but what are we doing,we are twisting the real thing to have our own way. The people that speak about halloween and usa and cultural adaptation of it forget when their sons and duaghters grow up,then the take a flight of PIA back home to get them married fromt he same culture which they left 30 years ago.Coz in they never grew,they let their progeny have fun in the new culture but they followed the same old one where they were broght up.This is hipocrisy.they do it yet they will speak “how halloween and how christmas are bad” will rpoduce hadith and qurans verses to support their way.will malign maulvi’s and this and that. But inside they follow the same. I read a womans narrative of basant that how its wrong in islam. Forget islam how is it right in our culture? loudmusic dances and bayhayie is that what basant was all about?now ull say implement law,the thing that can be done is to stop an event that leads to this social injustice where 25% enjoy and 70% dies on the streets chasing the kites. Now ull say stop them from chasing. LOL same is for halloween there are many who cant afford the dresses for their kids,many cant afford kites so y have these? there are other things to enjoy but hell no basant it is and halloween it is as its enlightenment. and those speaking against it will be banished a new name “fundamentalists” or maulvis LOL. Keep islam out of it and think deeply how basant helps and how will halloween implementation will make us tolerant.yes in usa if ur kids gonna do it let them do it,but then when they grow old they should be allowed to marry in the same culture where they were raised.Then dont give them lectures “yeh humari traditions nai” “muslim se shahi karni ha” u know what then ull get replies like Dinah Jinnah gave to her father!

  2. Shabbir says:
    October 31st, 2007 10:35 am

    Mr. Rizvi,
    All the responses to your article are hilarious, much more interesting than the article itself, but thank you for getting the debate started. It really tells the deep divide between the moderate Muslim and fundamentalist Muslim. Isn’t it the story of Pakistan or any Muslim country today. Also very amusing is the disclaimer that “I am not an atheist. I consider myself a proud Muslim”. Unfortunately, we live in post Rushdie era, you never know what may happen, therefore a moderate Muslim has to write a disclaimer before any discussion, how tragic. Here is a something from another moderate Muslim, Allama Iqbal:
    Mey Khatakta hoon dil e yazdaan mein kantay kee tarah
    tu faqqat Allah hu Allah hu Allah hu?

  3. Akif Nizam says:
    October 31st, 2007 10:23 am

    Adnan, I’m deeply offended at what you wrote ….well, actually only the “aged” part of it.

    MQ, how do you come up with a Faiz for every occassion? Wow!

  4. MQ says:
    October 31st, 2007 8:38 am

    JayJay:

    Yes, you are right. You have summed it pretty well. At the risk of repeating myself let me quote Faiz, my last recourse when I am at a loss for words. First, the original couplets and then a rough translation:

    Faqeeh-i-shehr say maa’y ka jawaaz kia poochaiN
    Keh chaandni ko bhi hazrat haraam kehtay haiN
    Nawa-i-murgh ko kehtay haiN yeh ziaan-i-chaman
    Khilay na phool, isay intezaam kehtay haiN

    Why ask the mufti if drinking is permissible?
    In his book of rules even the moon must not shine,
    The birds may not sing, and
    The flowers must not bloom

  5. Deewana Aik says:
    October 31st, 2007 7:54 am

    I can’t be bothered buying candies for Halloween…and when I ask the trick or treating kids “I don’t have candy, will you accept money instead”, I can see the kick they get out of it but they still say yes as if they are doing me a favour…kids are very clever these days…

    As Halloween day is usually not a holiday and I usually finish work quite late, thankfully only a few kids get to benefit from my “benevolence” and it does spare me having to ask my bank for yet another credit line…

    Seriously, I do think giving away on Halloween does improve our impression as Pakistanis, something we are in deeply need of. Our resident Muftis should also consider this fact, rather than always separating us in us and them groups.

  6. October 31st, 2007 5:47 am

    @Faraz: Candies are harmful for teeth of young kids. Halloween or no Halloween, any sane father will try to keep his kids away from such things. :-)

  7. Faraz says:
    October 31st, 2007 5:10 am

    So much information in all the comments. Thanks guys. I learnt a lot. Any kids that show up on my door asking for candy on Halloween night, I am gonna kick and slap each one of them. We MUST not participate in this evil ritual. We should eliminate it from the face of the earth. It will corrupt us. We will become secular and forget Islam if we distribute candies to 5 year olds.

    May Allah help us survive through this Halloween.

  8. Abid says:
    October 31st, 2007 2:59 am

    Perhaps we could conclude this ghostly bit with the following quote:

    “Given our terrible and increasing surrender to paganism the only day we should be observing is a day of mourning. Better yet it should be a day of repentance that could liberate us from all these days. And all this daze.”

    I might add that with the mess that Pakistan is in and the way Pakistani-hyphenated this or that country are being looked upon and the way some try to be more gringo than the white is the nightmare scenario in itself. How can anyone in his right mind think that Islam would be indifferent to practices seeped in anti-Islamic ideas and beliefs? Islam came to destroy paganism in all its forms and it cannot tolerate any trace of it in the lives of its followers.

    Further, Islam is very sensitive about maintaining its purity and the unique identity of its followers. Islamic laws and teachings go to extra lengths to ensure it. Salat is forbidden at the precise times of sunrise, transition, and sunset to eliminate the possibility of confusion with the practice of sun worship. To the voluntary recommended fast on the tenth of Muharram, Muslims are required to add another day (9th or 11th) to differentiate it from the then prevalent Jewish practice.

    May Allah (SWT) strengthen our faith. Ameen.

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