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Halal-oween

Posted on October 29, 2007
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Muslim Rizvi

Last year we had a discussion on Halloween in Pakistan and this year we’ll try to see the issues faced by the Pakistani community when they try to celebrate or try to shy away from Halloween while living abroad.

It has been boiling inside of me since that fateful day when I went to a mosque for an Iftari last Ramzan. I have a very good friend who is a part of the management at one of mosques and he invited me to come to the mosque for an iftari and a dars (sermon) by the resident maulvi. Coincidentally, I had to pass a few of his earlier invitations because of one commitment or another, so I decided to go this time. I sent him a confirmation email a day before that I will be there. However, I asked him that will he exclude me from Daira-e-Islam (circle of Islam) if I did not listen to Mullah and leave before he speaks. My friend, as expected from a gentleman that he is, sent me an email indicating his agreement with a smiley at the end.

Just to give you a little background. I am not an atheist. I consider myself a proud Muslim. I have indeed gone through my phases of atheism, agnosticism and all kinds of confusions when it comes to religion but I am thankful to God that I have evolved as a believer. When I look back, I realize that I never had any issues with Islam but I have always had issues with Muslims. To this day, I hate to see Islam used and abused by none other than the followers of this great religion.

Anyway, when I arrived at the mosque for the Iftari, my friend introduced me to the Maulvi. He seemed like a decent educated chap. After my meeting with him, my friend asked me again, if I wanted to stay for the sermon. It was hard to say no at that point. The sermon started off well and then at one point the maulvi revealed to the crowd in a very dramatic tone, that if all of the people in the mosque knew that their house was on fire. There was a silence in the room. The maulvi took another dramatic turn and said “ your house is on fire”! There was a murmur in the crowd. The maulvi repeated this statement three or four times and then asked the people, “do you want to know why?”. Some of the front row enthusiasts replied in a yes and the maulvi unfolded the mystery. The point was that our houses were on fire was because we live next to the biggest Satan, the United States. Damn! I mumbled under my breath.

I hate this meaningless US bashing. I am no fan of Mr. Bush and in fact I have several issues with the US policies. I think most of the times they are manipulative and sometimes just plain stupid. Having said that, I want to emphasize on the fact that I have no hard feelings against the American people. As a Pakistani Muslim, I believe we have a political conflict with the Unites States government and it does not translate into a war between Americans against the Muslims. The American people are simple and ignorant people like us. The difference is that they have been trapped inside a bubble. They have no idea about the outside world. All there is to them is the US and all they know about the outside world is via a biased media. It is not their fault that they are not aware of the reality of the Middle Eastern conflict. If you live with these people, you discover that hey are friendly, family oriented people with their own value system. Not every one is having sex with everyone else. Jerry Springer is not depicting the real American culture. Like us, these people too work hard to provide for their families and are not striving or conniving to destroy Islam or Muslims. It’s a political conflict , let’s keep it a political conflict!

The next trigger for this article was an email in one of the mail lists that I subscribe to titled “Surviving Halloween”. The title pretty much describes the essence of the e-mail. Here is a quote from the e-mail.

“How can we worship only Allah, the Creator, if we participate in activities that are based in pagan rituals, divination, and the spirit world? May Allah protect us from such misguidance”.

This email also had several quotations from Quran and forbade muslims to become a part of the pagan ritualistic tradition of Halloween like

“So many people participate in these celebrations without even understanding the history and the pagan connections, just because their friends are doing it, their parents did it (”it’s a tradition!”), and because “it’s fun!” Allah described such people in the Qur’an: “When it is said unto them, ‘Come to what Allah has revealed, come to the Messenger,’ they say, ‘Enough for us are the ways we found our fathers following.’ What! Even though their fathers were void of knowledge and guidance?” (Qur’an > 5:104)

I am not a religious scholar and so the first question I raise is what is the context of this quotation from Quran? Is it not that Arabs had traditions of burying daughters, worshipping idols, etc or it can be applied to children dressing up in cartoon characters and going to every home in the neighborhood to collect candy?

The second question I would raise is what does Quran say about people who use religion and quotations from Quran to serve their personal hidden agendas and what does it say about the people who in their sheer ignorance propagate these views by forwarding such emails. This emotional, exploitive rhetoric is shaping up the views and opinions of our new generation.

The third question is that being a Pakistani Muslim living in North America, if our children go “trick or treating” are they really defying the principles of Islam? I may not have an answer to the first two questions but I do believe that I know the answer to third question. I do believe that Islam is about sharing joy and love. As some one on the same mail list pointed out that we should be celebrating to the extent that we understand that it is sharing in other peoples ‘happiness and festivals’. However, at the same time we should be explicitly clear in our understanding (and our communication to kids) that this is not part of our religion. There should not be any harm as long as this understanding is clear. The gentleman also pointed out a risk that with the passage of time, this understanding or differentiation may not remain clear, and these festivals may be considered a part of Islam. I agree and with my decision to live in the “West”, I took the responsibility to provide and maintain that line of demarcation bteween our’s and their’s culture and religion.


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I agree that Halloween may have roots in pagan rituals but why do we care? Can’t we look at the bigger picture? Do you know where suit and tie comes from that you wear to work everyday? Tie symbolizes a cross. It is a very Christian thing but wearing a suit and tie does not make me Christian because that is not the ‘Neeyat’ (intention). Even your namaz (prayer) is not complete unless you make a ‘Neeyat’. Do you know where Mehndi (before your wedding) comes from you? Who cares? We adapted Hindu culture because we lived with them from hundreds of years. We didn’t adapt worshipping their gods but things that don’t hurt our basic religious principle are fine. Spreading joy and laughter is not unislamic!!! We live in multicultural society. Why can’t we be a part of other people’s festivities and share happiness? I loved it when my white, Canadian friends come to my house on Eid for Sheer Qurma. Why can’t we stop bashing everything American (even though Halloween is not originally American)? Why can’t we spread some joy and love in the world? Why do we have to highlight the differences and spread hatred? Why can’t the world be just one big happy place?

I watched the Halloween episode of the show “little mosque on the prairie”, and I loved the idea. a Halloween with a cultural twist? Can’t we have our children dressed up like chotay nawab with the kurta, pajama and topi? Can’t we have the bulbul and Jugnoo from Iqbal’s nazm Hamdardee. Can’t we have the Khattak dancer and girl from Thar costumes? If someone comes and tell me this is un-Islamic, the I only thing I can tell them is …Hip Hip Hurrah for Halal-oween!!!

About the Author: Muslim Rizvi is working as a Solutions Manager for an IT service company. He is based just outside of Toronto, Canada . Muslim is a writer, a poet, a painter, a playwright, an actor and a director and has been associated with theatre for over a decade. These days however, he is playing the role of a full time father and in his own words: “the artist in me died when a father in me was born”.

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  1. Interested Parent says:
    November 6th, 2007 1:52 pm

    ASSW, I am not the best Muslim. Nor do I try to “act” like the best Muslim. I know my husband and I struggle each day trying to decide what is the best for our children. Some of our decisions are based upon how I was raised in the states, some on how he was raised in Saudi. Some are based upon how other parents/our peers are raising their children. We send our kids to Islamic daycare, we do not celebrate Halloween, we try to pray Maghrib together. However, we are not sure about Islamic High School, we think our daughter (3) looks cute in dresses, we celebrate our birthdays and Valentines.

    We always come to the same conclusion, who is to say what is the right decision? It does come back to three things; Neeyat, Communication and Understanding. We must be clean in our Neeyat. We must communicate as a family and with our children their aunts, uncles, grandparents. We must understand each child, each generation, each community, family member, state, country is different and the various differences lead to a different learning environement.

    What we thought we would do 3 years ago may not be the same as what will be in 10 years. Overtime my husband has become closer to Allah and I think I have strayed. We must work hard. Judging others, preaching, and finding quotes from the Quran, seems pointless. As Mr. Rizvi stated, he loves Islam but avoids Muslims. We are suppose to be peaceful, do not get angry when a fellow Momin has his/her own level of faith. Are there not levels in Jennah? Allah(swt) knows we will not be all the same. So why not listen and understand. Hold your opinions and emotions and save them for your spouse and child. They are the ones you should truly model and assist in molding. No Muslim is 100% perfect. Keep working on yourself.

    Ma-Salam

  2. Rafay Kashmiri says:
    November 4th, 2007 10:12 am

    To all the commentators with due respect,

    The nations some times is told to chose the hard ways.
    Try to find easier ways.!

    To be difficult and impossible for everybody.
    Try to be soft and flexible.!

    To be harsh and inhuman towards all
    Try to be kind and human to all !

    To be liberal, Fahash, anti-God, anti-moral
    Try to be make check and balance!
    Try to be reserved, pudic, & charmning!
    Try to ponder on and favour God’s signs and proofs!
    Try to practice and establish moral and fill the gap!

    To follow, obey, and immitate others , impose the same.
    Try to follow, obey only yourself and only your owns!
    Try to use your brains, immitate others only to degrade
    them, never impose immitation as it is never real!

    To quote always foreigners to impress fellow Pakistanis
    Try to critisize them and collect weakpoints to convince,
    Try to quote your own culture and references!
    Try to make obvious the Preferences!

    To adopt foreign entertainment and showbusiness
    Try to degrade them by informing the negative side!
    Try to convince the moral disorder it brings to us!
    Try to convince the sexual delinquence and
    immorality it can bring in your families!

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