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Posted on October 29, 2007
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Muslim Rizvi

Last year we had a discussion on Halloween in Pakistan and this year we’ll try to see the issues faced by the Pakistani community when they try to celebrate or try to shy away from Halloween while living abroad.

It has been boiling inside of me since that fateful day when I went to a mosque for an Iftari last Ramzan. I have a very good friend who is a part of the management at one of mosques and he invited me to come to the mosque for an iftari and a dars (sermon) by the resident maulvi. Coincidentally, I had to pass a few of his earlier invitations because of one commitment or another, so I decided to go this time. I sent him a confirmation email a day before that I will be there. However, I asked him that will he exclude me from Daira-e-Islam (circle of Islam) if I did not listen to Mullah and leave before he speaks. My friend, as expected from a gentleman that he is, sent me an email indicating his agreement with a smiley at the end.

Just to give you a little background. I am not an atheist. I consider myself a proud Muslim. I have indeed gone through my phases of atheism, agnosticism and all kinds of confusions when it comes to religion but I am thankful to God that I have evolved as a believer. When I look back, I realize that I never had any issues with Islam but I have always had issues with Muslims. To this day, I hate to see Islam used and abused by none other than the followers of this great religion.

Anyway, when I arrived at the mosque for the Iftari, my friend introduced me to the Maulvi. He seemed like a decent educated chap. After my meeting with him, my friend asked me again, if I wanted to stay for the sermon. It was hard to say no at that point. The sermon started off well and then at one point the maulvi revealed to the crowd in a very dramatic tone, that if all of the people in the mosque knew that their house was on fire. There was a silence in the room. The maulvi took another dramatic turn and said “ your house is on fire”! There was a murmur in the crowd. The maulvi repeated this statement three or four times and then asked the people, “do you want to know why?”. Some of the front row enthusiasts replied in a yes and the maulvi unfolded the mystery. The point was that our houses were on fire was because we live next to the biggest Satan, the United States. Damn! I mumbled under my breath.

I hate this meaningless US bashing. I am no fan of Mr. Bush and in fact I have several issues with the US policies. I think most of the times they are manipulative and sometimes just plain stupid. Having said that, I want to emphasize on the fact that I have no hard feelings against the American people. As a Pakistani Muslim, I believe we have a political conflict with the Unites States government and it does not translate into a war between Americans against the Muslims. The American people are simple and ignorant people like us. The difference is that they have been trapped inside a bubble. They have no idea about the outside world. All there is to them is the US and all they know about the outside world is via a biased media. It is not their fault that they are not aware of the reality of the Middle Eastern conflict. If you live with these people, you discover that hey are friendly, family oriented people with their own value system. Not every one is having sex with everyone else. Jerry Springer is not depicting the real American culture. Like us, these people too work hard to provide for their families and are not striving or conniving to destroy Islam or Muslims. It’s a political conflict , let’s keep it a political conflict!

The next trigger for this article was an email in one of the mail lists that I subscribe to titled “Surviving Halloween”. The title pretty much describes the essence of the e-mail. Here is a quote from the e-mail.

“How can we worship only Allah, the Creator, if we participate in activities that are based in pagan rituals, divination, and the spirit world? May Allah protect us from such misguidance”.

This email also had several quotations from Quran and forbade muslims to become a part of the pagan ritualistic tradition of Halloween like

“So many people participate in these celebrations without even understanding the history and the pagan connections, just because their friends are doing it, their parents did it (”it’s a tradition!”), and because “it’s fun!” Allah described such people in the Qur’an: “When it is said unto them, ‘Come to what Allah has revealed, come to the Messenger,’ they say, ‘Enough for us are the ways we found our fathers following.’ What! Even though their fathers were void of knowledge and guidance?” (Qur’an > 5:104)

I am not a religious scholar and so the first question I raise is what is the context of this quotation from Quran? Is it not that Arabs had traditions of burying daughters, worshipping idols, etc or it can be applied to children dressing up in cartoon characters and going to every home in the neighborhood to collect candy?

The second question I would raise is what does Quran say about people who use religion and quotations from Quran to serve their personal hidden agendas and what does it say about the people who in their sheer ignorance propagate these views by forwarding such emails. This emotional, exploitive rhetoric is shaping up the views and opinions of our new generation.

The third question is that being a Pakistani Muslim living in North America, if our children go “trick or treating” are they really defying the principles of Islam? I may not have an answer to the first two questions but I do believe that I know the answer to third question. I do believe that Islam is about sharing joy and love. As some one on the same mail list pointed out that we should be celebrating to the extent that we understand that it is sharing in other peoples ‘happiness and festivals’. However, at the same time we should be explicitly clear in our understanding (and our communication to kids) that this is not part of our religion. There should not be any harm as long as this understanding is clear. The gentleman also pointed out a risk that with the passage of time, this understanding or differentiation may not remain clear, and these festivals may be considered a part of Islam. I agree and with my decision to live in the “West”, I took the responsibility to provide and maintain that line of demarcation bteween our’s and their’s culture and religion.


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I agree that Halloween may have roots in pagan rituals but why do we care? Can’t we look at the bigger picture? Do you know where suit and tie comes from that you wear to work everyday? Tie symbolizes a cross. It is a very Christian thing but wearing a suit and tie does not make me Christian because that is not the ‘Neeyat’ (intention). Even your namaz (prayer) is not complete unless you make a ‘Neeyat’. Do you know where Mehndi (before your wedding) comes from you? Who cares? We adapted Hindu culture because we lived with them from hundreds of years. We didn’t adapt worshipping their gods but things that don’t hurt our basic religious principle are fine. Spreading joy and laughter is not unislamic!!! We live in multicultural society. Why can’t we be a part of other people’s festivities and share happiness? I loved it when my white, Canadian friends come to my house on Eid for Sheer Qurma. Why can’t we stop bashing everything American (even though Halloween is not originally American)? Why can’t we spread some joy and love in the world? Why do we have to highlight the differences and spread hatred? Why can’t the world be just one big happy place?

I watched the Halloween episode of the show “little mosque on the prairie”, and I loved the idea. a Halloween with a cultural twist? Can’t we have our children dressed up like chotay nawab with the kurta, pajama and topi? Can’t we have the bulbul and Jugnoo from Iqbal’s nazm Hamdardee. Can’t we have the Khattak dancer and girl from Thar costumes? If someone comes and tell me this is un-Islamic, the I only thing I can tell them is …Hip Hip Hurrah for Halal-oween!!!

About the Author: Muslim Rizvi is working as a Solutions Manager for an IT service company. He is based just outside of Toronto, Canada . Muslim is a writer, a poet, a painter, a playwright, an actor and a director and has been associated with theatre for over a decade. These days however, he is playing the role of a full time father and in his own words: “the artist in me died when a father in me was born”.

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  1. October 29th, 2007 4:32 pm

    Muslim Rizvi Bhai,

    An excellent post, I agree with the gist of your comments. Muslims need to learn to live and let live. I am doing my bit vis a vis Pakistan by promoting an alternative or ‘other’ Pakistan, please visit my website at http://www.otherpakistan.org/archive.html

    Feimanallah

    Wasim

  2. lida says:
    October 29th, 2007 4:06 pm

    Great topic and of course it should be discussed and understood. We in the west have questions like these and its interesting to hear views.

    there is no pabandi on views.

  3. asheikh says:
    October 29th, 2007 4:04 pm

    Muslim Rizvi Sahab,

    Perhaps you haven’t noticed it yet but…you’re on the wrong listservs! Have you really “evolved” as a believer when the platforms of religion you have exposed your-self to are the more mediocre ones?

  4. October 29th, 2007 3:47 pm


    Now please feel free to label me an infidel or a liberal or even better how about a liberal infidel with no attachment to religion or his own culture .. Ciao

    I am amused how did you equate Liberalism with Infidel ism. Why are you afraid of being called a Liberal? why such fear? and why such Intolerance against those whom you despise?

  5. October 29th, 2007 3:42 pm


    I couldnt comprehend at what point did anyone over here suggested moving away from Islams basic teachings?

    Not my fault if you couldn’t comprehend neither you or everyone is supposed to grasp everything. Read what’s mentioned in Quran or Hadith. Nobody asked you to listen what others say. Atleast show some trust in Quran and Hadith? Don’t ask me to bring reference because for you, I am not reliable enough so make your own efforts rather depending on others.

    as far as forward mails are concerned, I also delete them. Ironically those mails are sent by those who have taken education in some university or school rather madrassah and their level of faith doesn’t go beyond forward mails. As far as my name is concerned, I am surprised with your weired logic about my name.

    I don’t get why do you guys seek excuse with in a religion for your own personal fantasies? if you want to follow fantasies then you should be courageous enough to admit what are you doing rather seek shelter within a religion and try to mold it according to personal Interest. What Iqbal said several decades back illetrate scholars is actually now applicable on our enlightened class.

    Khud ko badalte nahi Quran ko badal detey hain

  6. sidhas says:
    October 29th, 2007 2:21 pm

    Let me share how Rober F. Kennedy described extremists. He said, “What is objectionable, what is dangerous about extremists is not that they are extreme, but that they are intolerant. The evil is not what they say about their cause, but what they say about their opponents.”

    Issue is about being intolerant and self rightous!

    Everyone has the right to their opinion on religion but nobody have the right to take ownership of Islam and no one certainly said that there can not be many different opinions in Islam. Once upon a time, there were many according to some 135 schools of thougths/mazhabs.

  7. faraz says:
    October 29th, 2007 2:00 pm

    I liked Atelier comments. I will add two more clauses.

    11)shall not express his/her feeling in fine arts.
    12) Shall not express his/her joy in any music.

    End Of story. Make this world a joyless and sad place.

  8. Rafay Kashmiri says:
    October 29th, 2007 11:52 am

    This is all part of secularisation of our culture and
    civilization, Pakistanis must stand against this invasion
    of evils, corrupt, fahash, shameless, conscienceless,
    barberic, stupid amateurs of immature fun seeking
    mid-way failed adolesence. Instead of creating solid
    industries, entreprise, employment, jobs, PROGRESS
    we are pushed towards LUTCHER showbusiness
    artificial temporary industry without any future, our
    art is not even sincere art, its all corrupt and imitation,
    imitation nothing else.

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