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Posted on October 29, 2007
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Muslim Rizvi

Last year we had a discussion on Halloween in Pakistan and this year we’ll try to see the issues faced by the Pakistani community when they try to celebrate or try to shy away from Halloween while living abroad.

It has been boiling inside of me since that fateful day when I went to a mosque for an Iftari last Ramzan. I have a very good friend who is a part of the management at one of mosques and he invited me to come to the mosque for an iftari and a dars (sermon) by the resident maulvi. Coincidentally, I had to pass a few of his earlier invitations because of one commitment or another, so I decided to go this time. I sent him a confirmation email a day before that I will be there. However, I asked him that will he exclude me from Daira-e-Islam (circle of Islam) if I did not listen to Mullah and leave before he speaks. My friend, as expected from a gentleman that he is, sent me an email indicating his agreement with a smiley at the end.

Just to give you a little background. I am not an atheist. I consider myself a proud Muslim. I have indeed gone through my phases of atheism, agnosticism and all kinds of confusions when it comes to religion but I am thankful to God that I have evolved as a believer. When I look back, I realize that I never had any issues with Islam but I have always had issues with Muslims. To this day, I hate to see Islam used and abused by none other than the followers of this great religion.

Anyway, when I arrived at the mosque for the Iftari, my friend introduced me to the Maulvi. He seemed like a decent educated chap. After my meeting with him, my friend asked me again, if I wanted to stay for the sermon. It was hard to say no at that point. The sermon started off well and then at one point the maulvi revealed to the crowd in a very dramatic tone, that if all of the people in the mosque knew that their house was on fire. There was a silence in the room. The maulvi took another dramatic turn and said “ your house is on fire”! There was a murmur in the crowd. The maulvi repeated this statement three or four times and then asked the people, “do you want to know why?”. Some of the front row enthusiasts replied in a yes and the maulvi unfolded the mystery. The point was that our houses were on fire was because we live next to the biggest Satan, the United States. Damn! I mumbled under my breath.

I hate this meaningless US bashing. I am no fan of Mr. Bush and in fact I have several issues with the US policies. I think most of the times they are manipulative and sometimes just plain stupid. Having said that, I want to emphasize on the fact that I have no hard feelings against the American people. As a Pakistani Muslim, I believe we have a political conflict with the Unites States government and it does not translate into a war between Americans against the Muslims. The American people are simple and ignorant people like us. The difference is that they have been trapped inside a bubble. They have no idea about the outside world. All there is to them is the US and all they know about the outside world is via a biased media. It is not their fault that they are not aware of the reality of the Middle Eastern conflict. If you live with these people, you discover that hey are friendly, family oriented people with their own value system. Not every one is having sex with everyone else. Jerry Springer is not depicting the real American culture. Like us, these people too work hard to provide for their families and are not striving or conniving to destroy Islam or Muslims. It’s a political conflict , let’s keep it a political conflict!

The next trigger for this article was an email in one of the mail lists that I subscribe to titled “Surviving Halloween”. The title pretty much describes the essence of the e-mail. Here is a quote from the e-mail.

“How can we worship only Allah, the Creator, if we participate in activities that are based in pagan rituals, divination, and the spirit world? May Allah protect us from such misguidance”.

This email also had several quotations from Quran and forbade muslims to become a part of the pagan ritualistic tradition of Halloween like

“So many people participate in these celebrations without even understanding the history and the pagan connections, just because their friends are doing it, their parents did it (”it’s a tradition!”), and because “it’s fun!” Allah described such people in the Qur’an: “When it is said unto them, ‘Come to what Allah has revealed, come to the Messenger,’ they say, ‘Enough for us are the ways we found our fathers following.’ What! Even though their fathers were void of knowledge and guidance?” (Qur’an > 5:104)

I am not a religious scholar and so the first question I raise is what is the context of this quotation from Quran? Is it not that Arabs had traditions of burying daughters, worshipping idols, etc or it can be applied to children dressing up in cartoon characters and going to every home in the neighborhood to collect candy?

The second question I would raise is what does Quran say about people who use religion and quotations from Quran to serve their personal hidden agendas and what does it say about the people who in their sheer ignorance propagate these views by forwarding such emails. This emotional, exploitive rhetoric is shaping up the views and opinions of our new generation.

The third question is that being a Pakistani Muslim living in North America, if our children go “trick or treating” are they really defying the principles of Islam? I may not have an answer to the first two questions but I do believe that I know the answer to third question. I do believe that Islam is about sharing joy and love. As some one on the same mail list pointed out that we should be celebrating to the extent that we understand that it is sharing in other peoples ‘happiness and festivals’. However, at the same time we should be explicitly clear in our understanding (and our communication to kids) that this is not part of our religion. There should not be any harm as long as this understanding is clear. The gentleman also pointed out a risk that with the passage of time, this understanding or differentiation may not remain clear, and these festivals may be considered a part of Islam. I agree and with my decision to live in the “West”, I took the responsibility to provide and maintain that line of demarcation bteween our’s and their’s culture and religion.


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I agree that Halloween may have roots in pagan rituals but why do we care? Can’t we look at the bigger picture? Do you know where suit and tie comes from that you wear to work everyday? Tie symbolizes a cross. It is a very Christian thing but wearing a suit and tie does not make me Christian because that is not the ‘Neeyat’ (intention). Even your namaz (prayer) is not complete unless you make a ‘Neeyat’. Do you know where Mehndi (before your wedding) comes from you? Who cares? We adapted Hindu culture because we lived with them from hundreds of years. We didn’t adapt worshipping their gods but things that don’t hurt our basic religious principle are fine. Spreading joy and laughter is not unislamic!!! We live in multicultural society. Why can’t we be a part of other people’s festivities and share happiness? I loved it when my white, Canadian friends come to my house on Eid for Sheer Qurma. Why can’t we stop bashing everything American (even though Halloween is not originally American)? Why can’t we spread some joy and love in the world? Why do we have to highlight the differences and spread hatred? Why can’t the world be just one big happy place?

I watched the Halloween episode of the show “little mosque on the prairie”, and I loved the idea. a Halloween with a cultural twist? Can’t we have our children dressed up like chotay nawab with the kurta, pajama and topi? Can’t we have the bulbul and Jugnoo from Iqbal’s nazm Hamdardee. Can’t we have the Khattak dancer and girl from Thar costumes? If someone comes and tell me this is un-Islamic, the I only thing I can tell them is …Hip Hip Hurrah for Halal-oween!!!

About the Author: Muslim Rizvi is working as a Solutions Manager for an IT service company. He is based just outside of Toronto, Canada . Muslim is a writer, a poet, a painter, a playwright, an actor and a director and has been associated with theatre for over a decade. These days however, he is playing the role of a full time father and in his own words: “the artist in me died when a father in me was born”.

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  1. Rafay Kashmiri says:
    October 30th, 2007 4:02 pm

    MQ,

    you are free to choose any 4 out of five, the fifth one is
    illegal,

    You can even jump out from the top of Empire estate
    building, no one can stop you, but pls. don’t impose
    others to join you. And don’t get angry.

  2. MQ says:
    October 30th, 2007 3:54 pm

    Akif: You have raised important questions. Let me try to answer them to the best of my knowledge.

    Are birthdays okay?
    No, not even if you follow the lunar calendar. Celebrating birthdays is purely a Western tradition.

    What about Independence Day?
    Only if you have a military parade where they display missiles and tanks. No cultural crap like bhangra, khatak dance and folk songs. If there are any woman in the parade make sure you lower your gaze.

    Can I take my son to a ballgame?
    You may as long as it is not a game where they rub the ball against their thighs like in cricket. Dr. Israr had specifically declared cricket un-Islamic for the same reason.

    Can I buy my wife flowers?
    No!!! This is another Western tradition, which must not be followed. If you feel like giving her something, givr her a garment, jewelry, or a copy of behishti zevar.

    Can I buy her a slave?
    Yes, this is permitted. A slave will also come handy for you can free him for atonement of any of your sins that you might commit.

    Allahu Aalam

  3. chiefsahib says:
    October 30th, 2007 3:53 pm

    I guess it was expected, we can’t even figure out how to celebrate Eid at the same time within the same one mile radius.

  4. Saeed Ahmed says:
    October 30th, 2007 3:33 pm

    I completely agree with Muslim Rizvi.
    Why do we try to find roots of some thing which does not even deserve that much of a research.
    We Muslims in Canada (or America) don’t hesitate to live in houses bought through Mortgages but try to create a lot of fuss about things like Halloween.
    Same is true for finding Halal things to eat, one should gain reasonable knowledge about some thing being Halal or otherwise but should not turn the world upside down to prove or disprove otherwise. When we do this in my opinion, we tend to act like those from Bani-Israel who kept asking questions about what kind of cow to slaughter until it turned out to be their favorite one making it extremely difficult for them.
    Some one earlier wrote can we force “westerners” to adopt our culture/things, and my answer is yes if we dominate that culture, that’ll happen too.
    Some one gave a very good example that wearing a tie and coat does not make us Christian, neither would participating Halloween will…!!!

  5. October 30th, 2007 2:35 pm


    bachon ke chhotey haathon ko chaand sitarey chhooney do
    chaar kitabein parh ker ye bhi hum jaisey ho jaen gay

    Rizvi sahab ab bacho k naam par baray Apni Mastion k bahanay dhonday tu ye tu bachoun par bohtan hey na ;)

  6. Rafay Kashmiri says:
    October 30th, 2007 1:46 pm

    Akif Nizam,

    Birthdays, are originally ancient and pagan practices,
    reappeared during colonial period coinciding with the
    secterian belief among inovationists, took a drastique
    turnure, that we innovated urs to replace birthdays of
    saints.

    Unfortunately today we are lost in what we see,
    and what we beleive, “what existed”, and what is been
    taught.

    Today you can make a get together of your friends
    naming it birthday of your kid, or yours, and your wife’s,
    but the problem is that, we, today’s world have nothing
    to communicate, we have invented occasions to
    “celebrate “, and we feel obliged to go there, ha ha ha
    hello hi hi….etc etc .

    But until recently, last year, we formed a group of ladies
    and Gents, muslims, we get together every second weekend,
    we bring our food, drinks , sweets, rent a hall in winters,
    in summers open pic nic, at the beginning, bit poor, but
    slowly took a rythme of regular party.

    We had hot discussions on celeberating birthdays, we
    never forbade it, but never gave much importance too,
    many were angry, they left us, but now its fascinating
    how we still get together, the birthday cake is served without any tra la la, ofcourse, children interested only
    in other children, forget & prefer to the company rather
    than cutting cakes and receiving gifts with classical
    method and system.

    We have been joined by some non-muslims, so far, no
    problems, they know our culture, and we discover each
    other in the most harmonius way, though we don’t loose
    anything. Hope will continue like this.

  7. Akif Nizam says:
    October 30th, 2007 12:54 pm

    I think the opponents of Halloween have made their points clear……that it is not an acceptable practice for muslims to participate in events which are not rooted in Islamic tradition. So please allow me to take it down one notch.

    Are birthdays okay? are they okay only if we follow the lunar calander? What about Independence Day? Can I take my son to a ballgame? Can I buy my wife flowers? …..if not, will it be okay if I buy her a slave?

    These are not rhetorical questions. I seriously want to know !

  8. Erasmus says:
    October 30th, 2007 11:57 am

    tujhe * ma’loom hai ghafil keh teri zindagi kya hai
    kunashti saz ma’moor-e-nawa hai’ kaleesaaee
    or
    waza main tum ho nasara tau tammadun main hanood
    yeh musalmaan hain jinhain dekh ker sharma’en yahood

    [Dr. Muhammad Iqbal (PhD)]

    * tujhe: not to point anybody

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