I Fell Among Doctors

Posted on July 7, 2008
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Last week, I went to Washington, DC on personal business. I stayed at the Marriott Hotel, on Woodley Road, off Connecticut Avenue.

When I arrived at the hotel, and was taking out my luggage from the car, I could sense a commotion in the hotel — a kind of that you see at Penn Station in New York during the rush hours or, if you are not familiar with New York, at Islamabad Airport during the Hajj flights. People were milling around, dragging their luggage behind them, going up and down the escalators, and lounging around in the lobby of the hotel or wherever they could find a seat. They were mostly Pakistanis — men, some in their ethnic dresses; women in their usual colorful dresses; and a lot of children, from toddlers to teens. I soon found out why.


The Association of Pakistani-American doctors, APPNA, was holding its annual get-together at the hotel. Hundreds of doctors of Pakistani origin from all over the US, along with their families, had descended upon the hotel. They do this thing once every year in different cities.

Khalid Hasan, in one of his columns, describes APPNA gatherings as mela-i-mawaishiaan (cattle show). Even though the impact, initially, is a bit overwhelming, but I don’t quite agree with Khalid Hasan’s description. On the contrary, after the initial “shock and awe”, I started enjoying the energy and diversity of the scene.

Majority of the families who had converged at the hotel came from small-town-America where the total population of their respective towns, in some cases, did not exceed the number of people gathered at the conference. Therefore, the exuberance of the delegates and their families was understandable, even though it seemed to spill over at times.

Among the many helpful signs installed in the lobby to direct the delegates to different areas of the hotel and meeting rooms, there was also one indicating the timings of the five daily prayers. Presence of religion in the hotel was palpable.


While I was walking down the corridor in search of my room, a man, obviously a Pakistani, with a sparse beard, emerged from his room. His trousers were rolled up above his ankles, water was dripping from his hands and arms, and droplets of water could be seen hanging from his beard. It was maghrib time. He asked me if I knew which way the qibla was. Without a second thought, I pointed to what I thought was the west, since in Pakistan the qibla is always to the west. He thanked me and quickly retreated into his room, presumably to say his maghrib prayer.

It was a little later that I realized that in the US the qibla had to be generally towards the east. I felt a bit guilty in misleading the good doctor, but consoled myself in the knowledge that I had given the information in good faith. To further pacify my conscience, I also reminded myself of the verse that says “to Him belongs the east and the west; so, whichever way you turn your face doesn’t really matter…” 2:115

The APPNA managers had also arranged a delightful bazaar in the basement of the hotel. It catered to the needs of the delegates and their families, not only their worldly needs but also their spiritual needs. There were many stalls selling clothes and jewelry, and also many selling spiritual books and advice on cleansing the soul as well as the body. There were also stalls selling property in Dubai and advice on managing your money. The variety of products and services on sale was amazing! The women folks thronged the bazaar most of the time.

On the second day of the conference or the mela, there was a political forum to discuss the ongoing judicial crisis back home. APPNA had invited prominent politicians from Pakistan for this purpose. These sessions were open to everyone. Panelists included: Barrister Aitzaz Ahsan, Justice Wajihuddin Ahmed, Ahsan Iqbal of PML-N, Farooq Sattar of MQM, and Pakistan’s new ambassador in Washington, DC Mr. Husain Haqqani. The hall was full. All seats were taken. Many people stood in the back and on the sides of the hall.


It was clear that the audience was politically divided along the same lines that are etched so deeply on the political landscape of Pakistan. They expressed their views with the same emotions and anger that have been visible in Pakistan since March 2007, when General Musharraf sacked the Chief Justice. A large and vociferous section of the audience was for the restoration of pre-November 3 judiciary.

Aitzaz Ahsan was heard in pin-drop silence and received a standing ovation from the audience, both before and after his speech. He was even hailed as “Obama of Pakistan!” by someone in the audience.

Ahsan Iqbal of PML(N) was heard patiently. Farooq Sattar was occasionally heckled but managed to say what he had to say. However, all hell seemed to break loose when Mr. Husain Haqqani got up to speak.

Mr. Haqqani is a smart man. He speaks and writes well. I have heard him speak on TV and was always impressed by his clarity of thought and coherence of speech. He has written a great book, Between Mosque and Military, which, according to Stephen Cohen, is ”brilliantly researched and written book that should be required reading for anyone who wishes to understand this increasingly important state.” But on stage, in front of a crowd, Mr. Haqqani looked and acted more like a fighter rooster. He would try to put down his “opponents” with a sharp rebuttal or repartee. This technique might win him points in a school debate but did not win many friends among the APPNA doctors in the hall.

The acrimony generated in the political debate, however, seemed to disappear in the evening when, during a musical show, young Amanat Ali sang some fast paced songs, and the doctors broke into a wild bhangra in the hall that lasted past midnight.

I checked out of the hotel a day before the APPNA mela ended.


While going up to my room to collect my luggage, I entered an elevator, which already had some people (apparently Americans or Europeans) going up. Just when the doors of the elevator began to close, an exuberant Pakistani mother, in her colorful dress, accompanied by 3 or 4 excited kids, ranging in age from about 7 to 12 or 13, rushed in. We squeezed ourselves and pulled our tummies in to accommodate the woman and the kids. When everyone was in, and had pushed his/her floor buttons (the children having pushed more than one) the doors closed, and that usual awkward silence fell in the elevator. The mother broke the silence by loudly asking the children in English, like a schoolteacher would ask a class, “hey, let’s sing Pakistani national anthem”. The children bashfully looked at their mother with question marks on their faces. They didn’t seem to think it was a great idea to sing in such a closed space with strangers around. But the mother wasn’t deterred. Like the conductor of a choir, with one hand raised, she piped up with a full-throated ‘Paaak sar zameeen shadbaad … The children simply stared at their toes in embarrassment. The strangers in the elevator, more perplexed than bemused, slipped out of the elevator at the first stop. I listened to her solo performance in silence. Had she not been so out of tune I would have possibly joined her.

I guess patriotism, like nostalgia, affects you at odd times — and at odd places.

Overall, it seemed that the doctors had a good 3 days of R&R — recreation and religion, that is. What they need to do is, I guess, inject a bit of Renaissance and Reformation into APPNA to make it a really meaningful organization, both for the country of their choice as well as of their origin.

Photos for this post are by the author himself and the full collection can be seen here

72 responses to “I Fell Among Doctors”

  1. Abdul Hai says:

    I see there is a lot of discussion about Qibla direction. Now you do not need to worry about it. Just click the website below and type the address of the house/building you are in. The computer screen will show you the direction of the Qibla.


    As far as APPNA is concerned, I am impressed by some of the welfare activities this organization sponsors. You can blame the defficiencies in the organization to the sudden wealth syndrom. These Paki doctors come here after getting almost free education in 17 years of schooling as compared to 20 years of school for an American trained doctor who has spent close to $200,000 in loans. After working hard (100 hours a week)for 3 years on meagre salary, suddenly they start earning $200,000. Naturally it goes thru their head and you cannot blame them. In fact, currently, young pakistani doctors are the best export commodity of pakistan. They should thank their American colleagues who has a strong lobby and keep medical school enrolment low to maintain their income.

  2. Ibrahim says:

    What about

  3. Aamir says:


  4. Ibrahim says:

    PMA: You raised a good point about the contradiction between Qur’an and the wordings of the anthem. But, the point I was making was more basic: Qur’an is supposed to teach us about what Islamic spirit is, which includes rising above nationalism, tribalism, ethnicities, etc. On the other hand, a national anthem is symbolic of pure nationalism. And, what is done during the singing of anthem is even more horrific…standing up and bowing one’s head or placing one’s hand on the chest.

    So, even in non-religious events national anthem breeds the same nationalist views. National anthem, independence day, this day, that day are all living reminders of the policy of divide and rule. Don’t get me wrong…there is nothing wrong in my view to favor your country in sports or to feel more for one’s people….it’s only natural nor it’s wrong to define a common enemy like India, which it is. What’s wrong is to promote the so-called nationalism amgonst Pakistanis at the expense of the Islamic spirit.

  5. Jogi says:

    I would like to interject every now and then when I can add to the discussion since I am a firm believer in democracy and in the peoples’ drift to what their needs are and what they are made up of.

    Life is not exclusionary. APPNA members have their desires and needs. I was with the current president-elect at the last APPNA meeting in Orlando after he was just elected. An elderly gentleman came and congratulated him and with teary eyes told him and I quote “I voted for you. Please help me. I have two daughters who are unmarried and I would like to get them married. I ask for your help”. Should we turn him away because we should not be helping our members with their genuine needs?

    Think of it this way. Pakistan is 61 years old and is yet to find it’s direction and the best form of governance for the best people to govern it. APPNA is barely 1/2 that age but at least it has found the best way to be governed. There are many many needs and lacunae that APPNA can fulfill. We are very slowly filling these up but like any true democracy, three steps forward are followed by a couple backwards (Farid Zakariya). But we have stuck to true democracy and transparency in our governance.

    Comparing as to TIE is not a valid comparison. We should be compared to AAPI, which is a bigger and better organized body of Indian physicians. But then again there are differences between Indians and Pakistanis- Indians typically never criticize India. As for Quran and national anthems, we got much bigger issues to tackle but yes, amongst many of our quirks, this is one small one. May Allah forgive us for all other conduct that is much more divisive and destructive. We are humans, can do a much better job, but we are improving at least 3/4 years :)

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