Adil Najam
I know today is the day. I have already confessed that I can think of nothing except about what may happen today. But today – and what happens today – is really about tomorrow. It always is. And tomorrow is another day!
Apologies for being unnecessarily philosophical. But today (there I go again!) calls for it. Maybe its my impatience for the great match to begin. Or maybe it is my anxiety about what will happen after the match ends.
I know exactly how I want this match to end. And I can only imagine what my own reaction would be if it does end the way I want it to end. What I can no longer even imagine (or want to imagine) is what my reaction will be if it ends differently!
And, maybe, that is what this post is really about. A reminder to myself that no matter how important this match may be, it is, after all, just a match! Pakistan playing India in India, in the Semi-Finals of the 2011 Cricket World Cup is clearly serious affair. Both countries are at a standstill. A holiday has been declared in most of Pakistan and India is, if anything, even more transfixed on this, the “mother of all cricket matches.”
Yes, I realize that this game is different and evokes the passions it does because it is between India and Pakistan. I want Pakistan to win against India today. Desperately. But let me be clear: I will not become more Pakistani than I already am if we win. Nor will I become a lesser Pakistani if we lose.
So, even as we prepare to engross ourselves over the next many hours in a tense haze of frenzy mixed with anxiety and sprinklings of passionate bouts of hope, despair, angst, anger, joy, and rage, glee, and all the other magical ingredients of cricket at its best, let us please never forget that this today may be the match to erase the memories of all other matches, but at the end of the day it remains just another match.
This is not war. This is not the validation or negation of who we are. This is not the full measure of our identity or even our reality. This is not the panacea to our problems. This is not the pinnacle of our worth.
It is, at least for today, the culmination of all our aspirations. But tomorrow it will be just another memory. Let us hope it is a good memory. Let us, in fact, ensure that it is a good one. And whether it is or not will depend not only on what the 11 men in green will do on the field today, but also on all the rest of us will do. Today, as well as tomorrow.
Here, then, is a prayer for tomorrow. A better tomorrow, that we must invent today.
Here, then, is a prayer for today. A today that may or may not bring us victory, but which must be dealt with dignity and grace. If we win today, let us show gratitude and graciousness. If we do not, then let us face defeat with resolute resolve.
Tomorrow, of course, will be another day. Tomorrow we will return to load-shedding, shouting TV anchors, angry puritans on all sides of all arguments, embarrassing politicians, a conniving establishment, corruption galore, maybe even bombs and blasts.
But let us return to that tomorrow with dignity and grace – a head held high in pride but not arrogance; a spirit that can take a severe blow but not shatter. Dealing with every today with such dignity and grace is the surest recipe of inventing a better tomorrow. And that – a better tomorrow – is the purpose of this today; indeed, the purpose of every day!
(Apologies, again, for this rambling stream of consciousness. Now, let us get back to cricket!)
A well phrased piece and thankfully fairely well responded.Why don’t you and your like minded folks start a TV Channel? Most of the people are becoming sick of the current trash hosted by sickos. This is affecting our society in a bad way. Chest beating by men and women on a trivial pretext is the in thing.Thanks to this gang of Channels.I wonder how these gangsters would respond in either case.They do not believe in any tomorows,sadly.
@Deeda-e-Beena: thanks for writing such sane words in a world made insane by tv channels and their frothing-at-the mouth anchors who have been trying to portray this match as a mini war. I hate them for this.
I am looking forward to a glorious game of cricket, not a dog fight between teams and their fans. But tv channels have been trying to turn this match in to just that and that’s why all the big-wigs from both countries have descended in Mohali. to have fun at the expense of cricket and its common fan.
I’m praying for common cricket fans that no matter what the outcome, they should be able to shrug and move on.
@Deeda-e-Beena : thanks for writing sane words in a world where tv channels have spinned a match into a small war.
I hate it.Becaue they have taken cricket away from us- the fans, and converted it into a dog fight where the players and fans are the dogs and all the big-wigs from both countries are spectators decending on Mohali to have fun.
Yes, I will be heartbroken if India lose this match, yes, I am echoing the feelings of every Indian and the same feeling every Pakistani has today; that Pakistan must not lose the match today and if it does, they will be heartbroken.
I have stopped watching the news channels because all they do is froth at the mouth declaring how big this match is, how almost equal to war it it.
I hate them for destroying what could have been an exciting match for me. Now it’s only a source of anxity and gloom. Because all of us, we Indians and you Pakistanis are not woriied about “winning” the match, we all are worried about “losing” it..
this is one of the best posts by Adil. The win or defeat today is not going to change anything and tomorrow every thing will return to its routine…
By the way, why does everyone on TV keep saying that people are doing “dua” for the cricket team.
Do people really think you win games because of “dua” rather than actual hard work and practice?