Few things bint-e-hawwa has to bear

Posted on October 23, 2007
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by JayJay

The life of a Pakistani woman is not easy. It is not a hidden fact that she is subjected to discrimination and harassment, within and without the so-called sanctuary of her home. However, harassment and bullying becomes more intense and blatant when she steps out of her home for work or education. From catcalls to verbal innuendo to physical harassment, she has to endure it all, mostly at the hands of strangers, on the streets and on public transport. This harassment does not stop, or rather become more palpable in many cases, at her place of work. The act of harassing women, with sexual tones and motives, by fellow employees or supervisors/managers is referred to sexual harassment. Wikipedia defines sexual harassment as:

Harassment or unwelcome attention of a sexual nature. It includes a range of behavior from mild transgressions and annoyances to serious abuses, which can even involve forced sexual activity. Sexual harassment is considered a form of illegal discrimination in many countries, and is a form of abuse (sexual and psychological) and bullying.

An editorial from The News on October 1 has summed up the issue well, by pointing out to the absence of appropriate legislation to deal with this growing phenomenon. Offering some the broad suggestions, the editorial reads:

As a first step, the government and the private sector should join hands to start a campaign in which sexual harassment in the workplace is defined. This will make working women understand what is acceptable and what is not acceptable behavior in a workplace. The second step in this national exercise would be to ask employers to put into place a proper policy that defines sexual harassment and clearly spells out what action is to be taken against someone found guilty of it. In addition to this, employers need to have a mechanism which enables any employee subjected to such harassment to approach an appropriate forum for filing a complaint. The complaint should be treated confidentially and investigated, and if guilty the offender should be punished according to the employer’s code of ethics for employees. Of course, given that many companies have an environment which is more or less male-dominated and where men are in most decision-making senior roles, it may be a bit much to expect that things will change overnight. However, to do nothing would also be a sign that we as a nation are not willing to evolve and provide justice to those who are victims of this menace.

The menace of sexual harassment at the place of work has been comprehensively and effectively addressed by the West where workplaces are no longer the sole domain of men. Pakistan has a lot to catch up on this matter, and quickly so, as more and more women are entering workforce. It makes economic sense both for employers and the government to have an effective and clear legislation and corporate policies to protect women against harassment. Not only skills and talent of education women can be brought to use more effectively by attracting them in a safe workplace but it has been seen worldwide that presence of women in offices helps boost productivity, besides infusing fresh ideas and way of thinking.

While enacting a piece of legislation and formulating policies is most critical step, a concerted awareness campaign is necessary to influence general attitudes and social behaviors. Without bringing about change to prevalent perception of working women in Pakistan, there is little chance of success in overcoming the problem of sexual harassment. The fact of matter is that most women in Pakistan brave into men-dominated workplaces out of economic necessity, rather than to fulfill career aspirations. The position of women in workplace in Europe, North American and even South East Asia has become entrenched, still it is not odd to come across a public service announcement to press the message on the issue. Such public service announcements are even more necessary in a society like Pakistan where we leg behind even comparable countries in accepting the role of women at work.

99 responses to “Few things bint-e-hawwa has to bear”

  1. Sultan Ghori says:

    @thinker, it seems that for these guys/gals the crow is white, and they have made up their mind so…

  2. thinker says:

    hey lady… my stance is clean and clear… problem is you are not seeing it, your are seeing right through it. all the systems in the world has been tried and they collapsed sooner or later.. if u feel ur liberalism, femenism is eternal be my guest try it out and let me be the only opponent to it… you are old enough to learn urself.. and plz don’t call me misguided, I used to be close to an agnostic. I have seen the world from ur side of the line… And I thank God for showing me what is right… you will learn too… urself..

  3. chief sahib says:

    for thinkers view, your previous response, and my analysis in brackets

    another chaotic reply from another liberal (you just called me a liberal just because I said that harassment is bad, that was an assumption on your part). well you see cheif even the western phds don

  4. Tina says:

    “Fabricated stories..” without proof you should not accuse people of lying. You cannot deal with the statement so you say it just isn’t true…not a very strong stance.

    Can’t you hold up your end of the argument without personal attacks and accusations?

  5. thinker says:

    hey cheif u made me read my own post… and u r talking about personal attack which i never did. i never passed any comment on ur character, i dont even know who u r… if you cant come up with a rational argument don’t use the dirty blame game to satisfy your ego.

    there is nothing but chaos on this site; I haven’t heard a single convincing argument from you guys. Just argument for the sake of argument and fabricated stories that makes me think that may be you are talking about some other country and not Pakistan. You are all under some severe western influence but a nice effort by a bunch of liberals. I hope and I know someone of you will learn in time.

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