“Sindhi Topi Day.” Wonderful. But Why the Guns?

Posted on December 6, 2009
Filed Under >Adil Najam, Culture & Heritage, Law & Justice, Society
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Adil Najam

Did you know that today, December 6, was “Sindhi Topi Day”?

I did not. But I now do. I also now know that it was celebrated with great fervor. I am glad that it was.

Even though some have raised concerns about how such a celebration might “isolate” Sindh from the rest of the country, especially in the wake of the violence that the country is in the grips of, I think the idea of celebrating our heritage is a good one.  In fact, I hope that it will be followed by the “Pakol Day,” the “Karakul Cap Day,” the “Kulla Day,” and days for celebrating all the diverse and rich array of caps and turbans worn all across the country.

I mean that in all sincerity. After all, we at ATP have been celebrating the Caps and Turbans of Pakistan right from the beginning (here and here).

What I cannot understand, however, is why the centerpiece of the celebrations seemed to be guns and fancy firepower, even more than ajraks and Sindhi caps?

This was so not just in this picture, but in a number of other pictures too. And it is by no means specific to this celebration. All across Pakistan, we see this morbid fascination. Guns at Basant are as disgusting as guns at weddings or guns at college graduations. And yet, the insecure amongst us cling to them in shallow bravado and false machoness. In ordinary times, the spectacle are merely disgusting displays of bad taste. In times like these, such acts become ominous reminders of how the validation of violence (also, here) is a deep deep scar on all of our society.

The picture above is particularly disturbing, not only because of the ugliness of the weapon but for the obvious glee on the lady’s face (from the photo’s caption, she is a “political activist”) – not to mention that in her glee she forgot to don the Sindhi Cap she is supposed to be celebrating. One assumes that the child clinging to her (in a state of shell shock, as he should be) is her’s. One wonders what lesson he is taking back from this episode?

But the bigger question really is, what lessons are we teaching our children about violence and the validation of violence?

Three past posts from ATP still haunt me to this day – the first about an angry mob burning a thief alive, the second about WAPDA engineers opening fire at protesters, and the third of a man beating his wife a his son looks on. All three are really stories about the validation of violence; stories that we have had to write again and again.

The question, indeed, is: with all this fascination with guns and all this violence thick in teh air, what have we become ourselves and what are we teaching our children to become?

39 responses to ““Sindhi Topi Day.” Wonderful. But Why the Guns?”

  1. faraz says:

    Nice sharing…….

  2. Skunk says:

    @Asad: My post seemed to be directed at ATP, however, I’d like to clarify that my intent was to target the prevalent norm. Indeed ATP has made a point of bringing other incidents to light, this picture however, appeared in Dawn, Express and others news papers who do not apply same rules to all.

  3. ShahidnUSA says:

    Author`s (Adil Bhais) perspective is much deeper and educating than the visual dismay including mine.
    To be fair and logical, even if that boy is not her son, she is not leaving a good example that guns are not something you play or celebrate with.

    Post script: This is just an effort in search of what went wrong.
    Why are we at, where we are? :) :(

  4. ASAD says:

    Dear Skunk.

    I have seen dozens of stories on ATP about guns in other context. Certainly about Basant. Many time about IJT. About MQM. About other violence. Go and search for violence above and see,

    Now, how many times have you accepted your own mistakes and learnt from them, rather than thinking the whole world is against you?

    You are right, rules should be same for everyone. So, why are you asking they should be different for Sindhis?

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