Split Images, Split Realities: We Deserve Better

Posted on May 2, 2010
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Farid Ahmad

I look out the window at the beautiful mountains, the clear blue sky, and the wonderful winter sunshine. I see cars driving along the road – from the luxury four-wheelers, to the economy small cars. Busy people. Peaceful people. People going about their daily lives. People working hard on their jobs to feed their families, to fulfill their ambitions, to make something of their lives, to raise their children, to love and to live.

Then I hear the news of some terrible incident somewhere close by. The contrast between what I see all around and what I see in these isolated incidents is jarring.

And I think to myself, we’re peaceful, friendly peoplewe deserve better.

I walk out of a meeting and reflect on the people I have just been talking to. Intelligent, smart people. People with a sense of purpose, a sense of direction, with ideas, with the will to find new solutions, to overcome every obstacle and succeed. Articulate, intellectual people who fill you with confidence and hope.

Then I switch on the television and see a public figure harping on the same rhetoric he’s been spewing for years. He has no ideas for the future, he has no inspiration for his countrymen, he offers little hope and little sense of direction. The contrast between the people I meet everyday, and the people on television is jarring.

And I think to myself, we’re an intelligent peoplewe deserve better.

I finish reading a book on our history, our traditions. I think about the glorious selfless individuals who once led us, about the people who were kind, who had honor, who had values, who put their principles before themselves.

And then I think of our current crop of people in authority and the contrast is jarring.

And I think to myself, we are a people with a proud history, with a glorious traditionwe deserve better.

I drive along the M2, taking in the wide lanes, the lovely countryside, the clean, efficient service areas. As I stray above the speed limit I get pulled over by a traffic sergeant. He is polite but firm, courteous but confident. He doesn’t even hint for a bribe, simply writes me a ticket and advises me to drive more carefully for my own safety.

Then I reach the city and get mired in traffic again, the road is crowded, the lanes are narrow, and patience is running low. The contrast between where we are and where we can go is jarring.

And I think to myself, we are capable of so much morewe deserve better.

I visit the market and stopover at the video shop. I browse through DVDs of the latest hollywood blockbusters, and a dazzling choice of music from around the world. I head over to the bookshop next and spend a pleasant hour leafing through literature on every topic under the sun and from around the world. The place is buzzing with people, moderate, intelligent people with an interest in the world around them and a hunger for the creative outlets.

Then I turn on a foreign news channel and see a couple of guys discussing Pakistan as if it were some prehistoric backwater filled with people disconnected from modern life. The contrast between how we live and how people see us is jarring.

And I think to myselfwe deserve better, we deserve so much better.

I have no answers.

I don’t know how to bridge the contrast between the reality of a great country, with proud people and glorious traditions; the equally jarring reality of a greedy, spineless set of people holding them back; and a suspicious world that is bent upon painting 170 million people with a single, morbid brush .

But I know this: change will come, change is inevitable. We have too much potential to go down as history’s footnote! We deserve better!

Farid Ahmad blogs at ‘How Many Roads Must a Man Walk Down.’

28 responses to “Split Images, Split Realities: We Deserve Better”

  1. Farigh says:

    No we don’t deserve better!
    I agree with most commentators that we are what we deserve. We chose corrupt politicians, pay bribery even for a little convinience, and in general a very selfish nation. (though have some remarkable exceptions like Edhi etc)
    Even a low level labourer will try to cheat you when he can, and HEC scholar will run away instead of fulfilling his/her bond (see bhagora list on HEC growing). Its not surprising that biggest dako is our head because we are all small scale dacoits

  2. There are always been some posts here regarding optimism and positive side of the picture.I mean , whats the point of bringing this againa and again. Nations and Countries strive throughout the course of history to achieve anything valuable and we have just finished 62 years. British Democracy is the classical example to to judge the the time span and circumstances due to which they are now at this level.Anyhow if we have only few of such people and such spirit , i see a bright future ahead, by the grace of Allah Almighty

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FpP3hGCKgDg

    http://www.dawn.com/wps/wcm/connect/dawn-content-l ibrary/dawn/in-paper-magazine/the-review/quantum-l eap-250

  3. ali hamdani says:

    @haroon. Well said. It is us who is to be blamed for the current situation. The people are so DUMB they keep pinning this war on others and criticizing every1. But what do we do to improve our society besides bragging? We are letting the terrorists dominate us !! which must be stopped.

  4. Ammar says:

    @ Farid, I agree with your assessment that we are indeed a nation with immense potential, but the question remains is this potential being utilized? Terrorism is a global epidemic and its roots can be traced back to Pakistan. If we introspect carefully the trail of many terrorist plots trace back to our soil. In order to progress forward we must eradicate religious extremism which hampers our aspirations of peacefully progressive Pakistan.

  5. Farrukh Bokhari says:

    I disagree with this rhetoric “we disserve better”. We get what we choose, when we had chance to excise our democratic choice we choose the worst people then before. Sheeraz has put it most eloquently.

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